War of the Roses on the skin of children considered AFTER THE MURDER OF PERUGIA, "but mothers USING THE psychological violence "
" Beatings and threats: from 20 crimes per day separated fathers'
23/8/2006 LDI
| ROME. Twenty crimes per day, over seven thousand a year, a few murders but many episodes of violence and threats committed by fathers often separated for revenge against the ex-wives. A problem that news reports have sadly reported the spotlight.
Maria Burani Procaccini (Forza Italy), the outgoing president of the Parliamentary Committee for Children, rattles off the data collected through survey of the Ministry of the Interior. These are "crimes of desperation," clarifies the Burani, "to whom we must look to understand the plight of hundreds of thousands people, one in which magma then hide the follies such as the latent consumatasi unfortunately yesterday in Perugia. "
A theme which also involves the shared custody law approved during the government's center-right and he works on the Secretary of Family Minister Rosy Bindi, Chiara Locks. The law should not be deleted but it has some defects, supports Locks announcing that the government will seek to amend it with the help of the opposition.
Men are no more guilty of women, the reaction to be different, defends Ernesto Emanuele, president of the separated dad. "Often, fathers or parents who did not get custody easily - says - lose their heads, men resort to physical violence, while women mostly psychological violence. " The survey, which does not include the crimes of non-payment of the monthly to wife and children is also understood that one must experience the new law in fact shared custody "to see if it really will ensure both parents," says Burani. And above all, makes it essential to monitor the behavior of both parents.
"I do not want to criminalize anyone, it is good to have an assessment and that the child is considered a rights holder." If the fault is not all attributable to the fathers, it is also true that 87 percent of men asks the award "showing less interest in the fate of their children." For fathers, therefore, "we must understand the value of fatherhood. The child is seen as a tool to hurt his wife. Man builds a partner and forget the needs of the child. "
But the mothers, against ex-husbands, often use the weapon of accusation as slanderous to libidinous acts against children to keep their children, for its part warned that Emanuel also noted that complaints of men against their ex-wives are stored more often than those filed by women. The creation of an authority for the child and the unification of jurisdiction children, sought the exponent of the Secretary Locks Fi replication.
"I agree with the dialogue, is not an issue that divided the Minister Bindi wants to put his hand to family law in general, the institution of the family court." But first of all monitor the law on custody, which has positive aspects, such as giving the center the child's interest, but also many gaps. "We want to understand what is wrong, the law was hastily made and is making not inconsiderable problems of application. We will make proposals and seek dialogue in Parliament. "
That he also recognizes the limits of Emanuel who by his association was shared among those who sponsored, "a big step forward because neither parent has now total possession of the child and so we are both more cautious." On violence against children Locks offers a comprehensive approach that addresses overall violence inside the home. He calls him a "cultural problem" that must be resolved by looking to see what the school can do, how to help mothers victims and accomplices to the violence of the fathers, "acting indirectly through education, especially of women." |
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For the truth 'we are frequently reported cases of physical violence made directly to mothers or their new friends that are reported, often without then action is taken, rather than restrictive measures resulting in attendance of their children and against those who 'was a victim of violence. It is not considered proper - indeed defamatory - this generalization of guilt toward their fathers, pointing out the stereotype that they would act in a violent way and to take revenge, using the children. Generalizations are dangerous and defamatory, analogous to the libel that the Jews have suffered prior to the approval of the racial laws. In reality, 'it turns out that the depressions and episodes of anger or despair arise rather from a sense of male impotence in being able to give their children a stable family and provide them with a parental relationship serene and balanced.
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