Children are more traditional adult education, perhaps it was unnecessary trouble for pediatricians to know that our children are welcome Mom and Dad "regular." In short, it seems that children accustomed to video games and now mobile phones are much less "modern" with regard to the family: a thousand miles away by the siren song of a changing society, in fact, continue to prefer the altar for Mom and Dad.
The pediatrician says Italo Farnetani University University of Milan, which explains how children and adolescents prefer marriage, civil or religious, to partnerships and so-called civil unions, civil solidarity pacts that have returned to share the center, following the statements of Senator Paola Binetti of Margherita, the Cl meeting in Rimini.
And children, no doubt, are above all suspicion: "This is obviously not a policy choice - specifies the expert - but a question of safety and need, from children and teenager, approval by the majority. As long as the children of married couples will continue to be more numerous offspring of the partners, in fact, they continue to warn the brand of diversity, noticeable from the age of four years. "
Children, therefore, do not like extended families, unmarried parents, and, least of all same-sex parents and continue to believe, rightly, we dare say that it is better to have mom and dad who said they were "yes." "That's because - says the pediatrician - children and adolescents are seeking safety, who understand that marriage offers some extra guarantee".
course, if the alternative to coexistence is separation, "of course opt for the union of small mom and dad, married or living together are ". A concession, as the lesser of evils, for possible partnerships and civil unions, if they ever reach you, but emphatic no, without any provision for possible adoption of children by homosexual couples.
"85% of pediatricians - Farnetani says recalling the survey data presented at the 28th European Congress of Pediatrics, in Madonna di Campiglio - is in fact contrary to this possibility. for growth and develop properly, children need a male and a female model, readily apparent. The alteration of the reference models within the family - the pediatrician continues - because of disharmony in child development, a source of dangerous confusion. "
A thesis that does not appear to most as a great discovery, and that reassures all those who are "family" in the traditional sense of the word.
But even in a traditional family, said the pediatrician, "should be avoided the confusion of roles. The woman has the right to work, carried out professionally, while the man should help around the house. But the father must not become 'mum', and vice versa. "
children, according to the pediatrician, have a clear idea on the head of the family and the roles of its protagonists: "If we were to use a metaphor - he concludes - we say that the father has the role of the Minister of Foreign Affairs, which must ensure that the family interact, collaborate and defended from the outside.
To her mother it would in fact that of the Minister of the Interior, shall ensure that the peace within the home. "
short, Italian children have clear ideas. Adults, perhaps a little 'less, as evidenced by the swell of controversy, right and left, n following the intervention of Senator Paola Binetti Margherita di Rimini on the stage, where the meeting is being Cl. The law on civil unions returned to divide the Union, with which Binetti, by Catholic, exclusive of any intervention on the matter, and the public, however, the whistles, shouting "Sold" and "Judas."
Maybe they should all just watch the children.
The alteration of the reference models within the family, because of disharmony in the development and becomes a dangerous source of confusion
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